Lady Felicity Steele

Dislikes:

Having spent years exploring the BDSM world, there are few ‘prescribed’ activities I don’t enjoy using to dominate, however, a list of my ‘dislikes’ is below, as well as a few sub-types/traits I don’t enjoy or cater for. Please be sure to read my ‘Likes’ page for my more ‘basic’ rules. As with my ‘Likes’, this list is not exhaustive, but probably covers the most common requests I turn down:

✖️✖️✖️Activities I DO NOT enjoy…✖️✖️✖️

✖️ Standard ‘personal services’.

✖️ Hardsports/Scat.

✖️ Naked/Uncovered face-sitting.

✖️ Smoking/Vaping.

✖️ Enemas/Douching: Please do not use my bathroom for this purpose.

✖️ Wearing/Use of fur: I object to it morally; Cruelty to men: GOOD! – Cruelty to animals: BAD!

✖️ Insect/animal cruelty.

✖️ 3rd party cuckold sex displays.

✖️ Significant scratching: ‘Teasing’ scratching is fine, as well as scratching via an implement… but I don’t wish to gather your skin-cells, dried sweat, or whetever else under my nails – bleugh!!!

✖️ Sploshing: Yuch! I was brought up with impeccable table manners – I can’t stand eating food with my bare fingers, let alone smearing it on someone!

✖️ Make-up for trannies: I dislike the mess of foundation/face powder/fake-tan/lipstick/etc – I don’t provide it, and ask that you don’t bring it or arrive wearing it.

✖️ Wrestling: Hey, I’m a feminine, delicate lady, ok!?! Many years ago, I found myself in a similar situation to the famous scene in ‘Borat’ – I vowed then that I would never attempt wrestling again!!!

✖️ Anything specifically A/B/C classed: I don’t have any, don’t want any, and ask you don’t bring/use any – I enjoy *fetish stuff* only.

✖️ Alcohol-consumption: I don’t drink, and I don’t like being around drunk people.

✖️ Noisy visitors: I have neighbours, I don’t have sound-proofing and I don’t want it – I like BDSM fun to be more meditational and psychological, rather than silly, noisy, shouting and screaming. If you like to make lots of noise, or are unable to control yourself, I’m not the lady for you.

✖️ I NEVER switch, play submissive, or allow clients to ‘do stuff’ to me.

✖️ Dinner dates, ‘arrangements’, shopping trips, days out, travel, holidays, socializing with clients: I like to keep my social life private and separate from my clients… and I respect the wishes of the large majority of you who like to do the same!

✖️ Domestic servitude: I find this incredibly dull, and I don’t need my floors mopped/vacuumed ten times a day.

✖️ Findom: Apart from real-time roleplays with visiting clients, I am not one of the throngs of women who will unashamedly beg… oops, sorry, ‘DEMAND’… that you send them money/vouchers/credits (“loser”, “pay-piggy”, “fund my lifestyle”, blah, blah, yawn…). I find it very undignified and tacky. Please go to someone else for this rubbish. If you want to send me money for no good reason, go ahead… but don’t expect me to ask for or acknowledge it, and I certainly can’t be bothered to accompany you to an ATM – you’re on your own there.

Over the years, I’ve identified a few types of sub who I don’t enjoy spending time with, and would urge you to seek another lady if you identify your own traits as follows;

✖️✖️✖️Sub-types I Don’t Enjoy…✖️✖️✖️

✖️ ‘Beginners’/’Introductions to BDSM’ – I’m happy to spend time with those who, for one reason or another, have never had the chance to explore unusual things they find arousing (maybe due to a disapproving partner, nervousness, or financial constraints), however, I’m not comfortable with those who refer to themselves as ‘beginners’; I feel this is a bit like saying to a waiter “I don’t know what I want to eat, I’m a beginner”! I seek those who have unusual urges and interests that simply don’t fit into those that are considered ‘the norm’, whether they fit into the stereotypical fetish-scene dictates, or not. I have no interest in showing an un-aroused ‘newbie’ what other people get up to on the off-chance it may spice up their flagging sex-life.

✖️ ‘Seeking a Rapport/Something Regular/A Special Arrangement’ – I find it off-putting when someone tells me this during a first phone-call or session. All my visitors are ‘special’ – I will treat you no differently. If we ‘click’, and you wish to return next week, and the week after, you are welcome; equally, if you’d like to return in 6 months time, you are just as welcome. If we get on well, and in time develop ‘a rapport’, so be it; over the years, many of my visitors have become friends of one sort or another. I feel that anyone suggesting these things during first contact thinks they are ‘dangling a carrot’, and that I will make more of an effort, or treat them ‘specially’ if they’ve suggested they’ll become a regular; I am more likely to suggest you visit a different lady if you are ‘looking’ for ‘something regular/special’.

✖️ ‘Dead-fishes’ – These are the type who dispassionately reel off a list of BDSM activities, or say “You can do what you like to me”, then spend the session in blank-faced silence (except for the occasional, monotone “Yes Mistress”) while I desperately try to find what will get a response from them, just for me to end up having to ask “How does that feel?” (or check for a pulse), to which I receive the reply “It’s ok”. You MUST be prepared to communicate, respond, suggest and occasionally laugh. Unless a clear role-play has been planned, my ‘dominance’ is always ‘tongue-in-cheek’ and playful. I smile, I laugh/giggle (sometimes with you, sometimes AT you…), I’m friendly and chatty, I GENUINELY enjoy myself; if that doesn’t appeal to you, I’m not the lady for you! I find the ‘angry-for-no-reason’ role a bit silly and exhausting, and I get no joy out of using equipment on someone who appears to be in need of a defibrillator more than anything else. There are many subs who enjoy this lazy, demanding style of submission, however, I DO NOT. There are zillions of ladies out there who are not only willing to attend to this type, but they are also much better at it than me.

Be warned…: If, 30 minutes into our session, I feel we are not ‘clicking’ and enjoying our time together, I will bring our session to an ‘early climax’, return part of my fee (only charging you for 30 minutes), and wish you well in finding a Mistress more suited to your needs. Thankfully, by insisting on a thorough telephone discussion first, I’ve been able to make sure this has rarely had to happen.